Fenda Florena's Note

Dan diantara tanda-tanda kekuasaanNya ialah Dia menciptakan untukmu isteri-isteri dari jenismu sendiri, supaya kamu cenderung dan merasa tenteram kepadanya, dan dijadikanNya diantaramu rasa kasih dan sayang. Sesungguhnya pada yang demikian itu benar-benar terdapat tanda-tanda bagi kaum yang berpikir. (Qs. Ar. Ruum (30) : 21).

Sebagai hamba Allah, kita telah diberi berbagai nikmat dan fitrah. Salah satu fitrah tersebut diantaranya ialah Gharizah an-Nau

saling membutuhkan terhadap lawan jenis untuk melestarikan keturunan dan melahirkan generasi muslim, yakni: Menikah!

Dan Allah telah berfirman : "Janganlah kalian mendekati zina, karena zina adalah perbuatan yang buruk lagi kotor" (Qs. Al Israa' : 32).

#menikahitu berawal dari keberanian dan kepasrahan | berani untuk mulai ta'aruf | lalu pasrah dengan hasilnya yg ma'ruf| awali dengan niat yg benar

Keberanian #menikahitu artinya berani mengambil resiko + memikul tanggung jawab pasca ta'aruf.

Kpasrahan #menikahitu artinya siap mnrima 1/2 kpastian | lanjut ta'aruf mnuju khutbah | atau stop kmunikasi krna proposal nikah di-reject :D

Manakala proposal #menikahitu di-reject | kerap hati menjadi haru | pikiran tertutup kabut duka | dunia seolah kehilangan pesonanya.

Keinginan #menikahitu yg smula mnggebu lalu surut berlarut | beginilah hati anak manusia, lincah di kala gembira | patah di saat sedih.

Tips1 mnkala proposal #menikahitu direject | ingat bhwa wnita brhak mnolak sprtihalnya pria brhak mmlih | tnamkan prinsip ini dalam-dalam ;)

Tips2 mnkala proposal #menikahitu direject | mundurlah perlahan | untk perlihatkan kualitas diri matang | siapa tau wnita berubah pikiran :D

Jika tetap menolak proposal nikah | ingat! Pantang menoleh dan mengulang tuk meminta.. Cinta itu gk bisa dipaksakan, bro! Exit elegan 8-)

exit elegan adalah pilihan yang tepat | ingat, perjuangan belum berakhir | perjuangan menggenapkan separoh agama baru dimulai :)

smoga kita bisa petik pelajarn lalu berdo'a kepada Allah agar menanamkan rasa cinta kepada ia yg akan menjadi jodoh kita kelak.

next step lanjutkan pencarian dan lakukan tanpa kenal letih | hingga kau mrasakan btapa sulitnya usaha yg mulia ini :)

saat menemukan seorang balon (bakal calon), hirup nafas yg dalam | segera ajukan proposal sebelum berlanjut usang, hehe

eh eh, ternyata proposal masih belum diaccept :( | inget dua tips tadi, lalu naiklah ke atas helicopter dan kau akan lihat bahwa perempuan shalihah bukan hanya dia!! don't worry be happy :D

aha! lalu saat proposal #menikahitu diaccept | lanjutkan ta'aruf yg tidak melanggar syara dan kembalilah semangat kehidupanmu yang baru :D

jalani proses ta'aruf yang ma'ruf | semoga dilanjutkan dengan indahnya khitbah dan berujung kepada berkahnya prosesi akad nikah

dalam masa penantian itu | brkomitmenlah untuk mnjaga hati & lejitkan value diri | agar pantas dan layak menjadi seorang imam yg hebat kelak

terakhir, ingat 3 pilar #menikahitu liLlah, biLlah dan ilaLlah.. selamat berusaha, selamat merasakan sensasi menjadi seorang pemberani :) 

http://chirpstory.com/li/179846

I witnessed the scene

The change of night and day

But it feels obvious

Staying and enjoying the night resulted forgetting the day

But spending much time of the day, sleeping,

Then what is the night for

There are more trouble than I could predict

It feels quite clear,

The enemy was in the self

The time when there were disputes in the self,

When you felt the existence of the real you,

Because the pursue will not and never end

How can you blame yourself for what you've done when you were sleeping

I'm not sure at that time I was sleeping

See,

The sky is getting darker

And the sun is leaving you

What would you prepare?

by : Muhamad Hasan

One day, I went to a blue shiny rivers, long I stood and looked down one as deep as I could. I touched the ripples, I took a mirror of mine. Though that image like a shadow, a wondered one that made me like a stranger in this world. The reverie came to fly my mind. So deep and so oppressive. Suddenly, a leave just felt down and laid on layer flow. It broken the ripples, spread my focus, I took again and guess what did I see? It was a mirror of rainbow, exact on my front! The phenomenon dispersed the light of sun to many beautiful colors.  Oh, what a great being it is!

It was like a sign. Such as those in fairy tale. When the things can speak and life like a human. “Hey, looked up! It’s a beautiful rainbow, is it?” It shouted. “Just go and talk to it that you want to know more about it.” It suggested. I ran as far as I could to reach the rainbow. So far I went, so close I got. I felt a great of feel that load my mind with a happiness. But it felt obvious. When I reached the place, I minded with a question. Can I touch the rainbow as I can touch the water? yes I can, but It quite clear that I can’t feel it. It was a vision, but it’s an illusion. It’s simply this.

Like my father said, this trickery world, a place for those who can face it without fall to depths of misery. I witnessed the scene, when the sky was getting darker and the sun was leaving. There were more questions that was waiting for me. What would you prepare, dude?